Glad to be Sad?

November 4, 2009

No one likes to be sad. But being sad like many perceived negative thoughts and emotions can be beneficial in many ways! From Metro

It turns out that glum people such as Jack Dee actually hold the key to success in life, because scientists say that bad moods improve memory, make you less gullible and improve your judgment.

Think that news is too good to be true? Well, lighten up and pay attention to psychology professor Joseph Forgas from the University of New South Wales. He found in a study he conducted into negative thinking that moody sorts have plenty of positive attributes.

‘Whereas positive mood seems to promote creativity, flexibility, cooperation, and reliance on mental shortcuts, negative moods trigger more attentive, careful thinking paying greater attention to the external world,’ Forgas wrote.

Our research suggests that sadness promotes information processing strategies best suited to dealing with more demanding situations.’

For the study, published in the Australasian Science journal, Forgas and his team conducted several experiments that started with inducing happy or sad moods in their subjects through watching films and recalling positive or negative events.

In one of the experiments, happy and sad participants were asked to judge the truth of urban myths and rumors and found that people in a negative mood were less likely to believe these statements.

People in a bad mood were also less likely to make snap decisions based on racial or religious prejudices, and they were less likely to make mistakes when asked to recall an event that they witnessed.

The study also found that sad people were better at stating their case through written arguments. Forgas said that this showed a ‘mildly negative mood may actually promote a more concrete, accommodative and ultimately more successful communication style’.

‘Positive mood is not universally desirable: people in negative mood are less prone to judgmental errors, are more resistant to eyewitness distortions and are better at producing high-quality, effective persuasive messages,’ Forgas wrote.

So, don’t worry – be gloomy!

As I’ve always stated, just because you’re not a positive person, doesn’t mean you can’t get positive results. Everything we do has value in it. In this instant world, where people just want the answers and never have to think of the question’s true meaning, we dismiss many thoughts because we can’t recognize their worth right away.

So the next time your sad, start making some decisions. Odds are, you’ll take the time to think things through better than when you’re a happy camper.

Sidebar – Why are campers happy? I’ve been camping. It’s a miserable experience. My back hurts from sleeping on the ground, if I even get sleep with all the nature making creepy noises outside the tent! I prefer a nice hotel room. Instead of hanging your food in a tree to prevent bears from stealing it, you can use the safe.


Fallback Friday – Stephen Colbert’s Fallback Position – Tennis

October 16, 2009

Normally, I tell everyone a fallback position is a good thing to have while you’re shooting for a difficult goal. But in this case, try not having a fallback position that is more difficult than your main objective. If you’re going to be disappointed, it doesn’t help to be left with a situation even more disappointing!

 

 


Media Monday (Delayed): CNN loves goats!

October 13, 2009

Since yesterday was a holiday, I missed out on a media monday post. Thankfully, the Daily Show more than makes up for it. Jon Stewart rightfully questions CNN’s inability to ask the probing questions and wonders why a 24-hour news channel never seems to have enough time.

more about “Media Monday (Delayed): CNN loves goats!“, posted with vodpod

 


REPOST: Columbus Day

October 12, 2009

Originally posted October 8th, 2007.

This post should have been Friday’s. But with my schedule, I usually have no idea what holiday it is until I find out something I need is closed. As far as Americans are concerned, let’s talk about the most important failure of all: Christopher Columbus! Today is a day to celebrate man’s refusal to ask for directions, a day to celebrate someone “discovering” a place with people already live, a place that was actually discovered hundreds of years earlier by someone else. It the most screwed up holiday of all! From Wikipedia.org:

Columbus’ voyages across the Atlantic Ocean began a European effort at exploration and colonization of the Western Hemisphere. While history places great significance on his first voyage of 1492, he did not actually reach the mainland until his third voyage in 1498. He discovered the island accidentally while trying to find an alternative route to India, hence the Native Americans being called “Indians”. Likewise, he was not the earliest European explorer to reach the Americas, and there are accounts of European transatlantic contact prior to 1492.

So let’s celebrate one of the most fortunate failures in American history. Fortunate for everyone except the Native Indians, I guess.

But, hey, let’s not let that ruin a day off.


Price Points’ 1st Anniversary!

October 9, 2009

Wow. A full year since Price Points has been started. My first year “solo” and what a year it was.

Thanks to everyone for their support, be it simply reading the blogs, going to strategy lunches (Thanks Shari), tolerating my newsletters, listening to my constant questions  or hiring me to “tear it up” at their event (their words not mine!).

Next year looks even better with some exciting new things (book!) and more adventures. Be it my clients in the far reaches of the country where I have multiple layovers and tiny prop planes to get to or the local client that has their meeting literally across the street from my home (Sleeping in!! Sweet!), I want to thank everyone!

Negative thinking dictates that just because you do it once, doesn’t mean you can do it again. So I have to keep up the hard work for next year. You can never rest on your laurels! (Not sure I have laurels to rest on yet, but even if I did, I sure wouldn’t rest on them!)

Off to go make 2010 better than 2009!